Should You Propose Back?

A proposal moment is a beautiful and significant occasion for all couples. Traditionally, it’s the man who proposes to the woman, but with changing times and gender roles, the trend of ‘proposing back’ has been gaining popularity. Proposing back means that the partner who has been proposed to returns the sentiment and proposes back to their partner. As couples continue to make joint decisions in their relationships, proposing back reinforces the 50-50 mindset and equality between partners.

If you’re considering proposing back to your partner, here are some ideas to plan your special moment:

What is the ‘propose back’ trend?

Proposing back is a trend where the partner who has been proposed to, turns the tables and proposes to their partner. This occurs because, in modern times, relationships are less defined with each partner playing an equal part in the relationship. With more LGBTQIA+ couples getting married, there are no rules or expectations for proposing either.

How to propose-back to your partner:

If you’re ready to give your fiancé a big declaration of love, follow these sweet ideas:

Do it right away — or when it feels right.

If your partner proposes to you and you want to propose back, it can happen immediately, or it can take place at any time after the initial proposal. You can propose back within seconds to make it a beautiful surprise, or wait a few days, weeks or months, whenever the time feels right to you.

Write down your proposal.

If you’re good at expressing yourself through writing, consider writing a letter to your fiancé. Write about what you love most about them, your future together, and how much you value and appreciate them. You can also create a “Things I Love About You” book, a humor-based rhyme or an intimate love letter that both of you can keep forever.

Consider an engagement ring—or another piece of jewelry.

Propose back with an engagement ring or any other piece of jewelry or item of significance that you know your partner will appreciate. You can choose something that shows their love for you and that marks them as “off the market” or something that is special to them.

Proposing back is a beautiful way to show your love and deepen your connection with your partner. Don’t be afraid to break traditions and make your own rules in your relationship. When two people love each other, there is no wrong way to propose or show your love.